A new Sephora opened in town.
It was worth it to wait on line outside the store for 35 minutes to gain entrance on the opening day.
The people-watching couldn’t be beat.
A microcosm of American women waited to get in. Ladies in hijabs. A teen in blue jeans texting while on line. A woman with a neon-pink headscarf.
I have altered a few details to protect confidentiality.
The point is women of all colors and creeds shop at Sephora. The desire to use makeup to brighten our faces and to feel good unites us.
Once inside I zoomed in on the $14 mascara I wanted to buy.
Waiting on line I heard the woman standing behind me complain:
“This line is taking too long. That woman at the register shouldn’t be taking all that time. Using those teenagers to get discounts.”
Lady shut up I wanted to say. You can afford to shop in Sephora so zip your lip.
Time’s up on acting entitled. It’s time to show privilege the door.
The cashiers were just doing their job. They’re not paid enough to have to put up with this noxious noise.
It took 10 minutes for me to get served. When I’m grateful to be alive and can walk down the street without getting shot at I’m not going to complain about anything.
My goal is to act bolder. I told a friend I wanted to act more assertive. To this he said: “You already are assertive.”
I encourage all women whether younger or older to make a statement. To not be afraid to speak out.
To stand for something as well as standing in line at Sephora.
Yes–I’ve been thinking about what I termed Conscious Chic in a blog category.
The Accidental Icon Lyn Slater talks about this in her latest blog post [see below].
Who needs 10 pairs of the exact same pants?
Who needs a bursting closet and overstuffed dresser drawers?
The manufacturing process of garments has long been a destroyer of our natural world.
It’s time to act in a considered fashion like Lyn Slater believes.
Though I’ve bought an eye shadow compact I intend for this to be the only beauty buy for the foreseeable future.
As well I have the intention to dress in the clothes hanging out in my wardrobe today.
I’m not a Green saint as far as this goes. Like Lyn Slater I’ve been thinking about this.
She talked of being creative.
Acting creative can do a world of good in transforming a simple wardrobe of clothes and collection of makeup into a stunning reflection of individuality.
You don’t have to be rich or thin to express yourself through beauty and fashion.
You can trust that you’ll look good without needing a trust fund.
Read the Lyn Slater Accidental Icon blog entry here.
This is the Before photo of a makeover session at Sephora:
The After photo is below:
Using primer before you add foundation and blush definitely helps make the blush look smoother.
I wouldn’t brush up my eyebrows with powder like this IRL on an ordinary day.
The lipstick is Poeme by Lancome that I chose because I arrived early and browsed the makeup lines.
The makeup artist chose the blush: Nectar by Lancome.
Though this was a birthday makeover I’m not keen to keep doing this every year. The cost can add up.
I also bought the concealer that the artist chose for me. Alas I have dark circles under my eyes and haven’t kept up with using concealer. Now I would like to try using the concealer.
You need something to hang on to that makes you feel good when you have a mental health challenge. Having a makeover can be a bright spot in your life when you’re going through a hard time.
It can also be a mood boost “just because” you want to get a makeover.
I picked up some tips and tricks from the makeup artist that I’ll start to use on my own.
Fifty-two isn’t so bad really. I’m newly fifty-two.
The secret to loving life whatever your age is doing what suits you and discarding the rest. I’m in full swing with the writing and editing of the career book and with the writing of a second memoir that is a collection of essays.
I will tell readers everywhere to have no fear: the future can be brighter than your life was in your twenties.